Hi everyone. First time poster here. I am currently having a really hard time dealing with my wife's Crohns disease. Lately it has been really bad, she is constantly nauseous, laying down, missing events, and her attitude towards me is almost always negative because she never feels good. We can't even go out to dinner anymore, which used to be one of our favorite things to do. I know she is the one suffering, and I really try to keep that in mind, but it has been over a year of this now and it's really taking its toll on me emotionally. I want to be supportive, but I am at the point where I get so frustrated with her condition. I can't help but think, "please, can you just suck it up this once?" I feel like thats not fair, like I'm failing her by not being able to always deal with that frustration, but I'm not perfect. Are there any other spouses that have had trouble keeping it together? Any advice, things I could do, etc? Much appreciated.
Reply posted for Jsilv123.
It is hard, but think how hard it is for her. Is she getting treatment, like biologics? Works great for some, not me, but some achieve remissionn