My name is Zenitra and I am a mother of #3. My oldest is 8 going on 90 so he is ok but my other two children are 19mos. and 6mos. now what am I to do. I like some of the ideas that Elizabeth and Jenn Jenn had were some good one for when my kids get a bit older but what am I to do with them now...??? My oldest helps but not that much. My biggest helper is my 13yr old brother. My babies don't understand that mommy is just not feeling up to playing with toys. There are times that I am not even up to changing pampers but that I have to do... My fiance' has to work long hours so I am home with them for the most part by myself. What do i do??? I feel bad every day that I can't play with my children!!! Anybody that has helpful ideas for the babies please help me. Thanks...
Zenitra
Reply posted for zswashington.
i no how you feel i just got out of the hospital monday after a 4 day stay needless to say monday was the first day of school my son who is 13 called my cell phone about one in the morning in tears cause he wanted me home to see them off on the first day of school it hurt so bad to hear him i tried to get home but they made me stay i have 4 boys 15,13.12,6 they no i stay sick but they dont understand why im always feeling bad i pray this scares me cause i dont understand this really its only been 5 mots still learning and dealing i keep colds cant breath at times lungs feel tight dont no if its the crohns that keep me sick so much sinus infection my system cant fight anything im back up on prednison cant wait to get off this stuff my body cant fight anything but i thank god i came home a lot of people didnt go home so i dont ask why me why not me thats the way life is so i thaNK HIM FOR EACH DAY GOOD OR BAD IM HOME AND IM PLANING ON STAYING HEAR IM TRYING TO Learn a better way then all these drugs thats the problem i just want my old self back i stay tired but i make myself get up dont let this crul sh?? beat you you beat it my friend i no how you feel but fight this for your kids i came was home when they got out of school druged up they said i was sleep but they said they was happy to to see my face when they open that front door sleep or not i was home stay strong fight this i no its hard trust me but im 32 i still got a lot more living to do for my boys and me GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY AND STAY STRONG
Reply posted for zswashington.
Don't beat yourself up too, much. Your going to have good days and bad days. That is part of your life, sorry. Just always let them know you love them, that part is easy.
Stay strong!