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Looking for a support buddy


Mon, August 17, 2009 12:00 AM

I'm looking for a support buddy who lives in greater Manhattan.  Someone who would like to get together once in a while to share frustrations/advice/overall support surrounding Colitis.  This could also be an email/phone buddy if you don't live in the city.


I'm 24 years old and was diagnosed with Colitis almost 2 years ago.  Currently my Colitis is mostly in control; I'm on 12 Asacol daily for maintenance.  I'm still working with my doctor to find the right balance of medication.  However, I struggle a lot with anxiety, and find myself slipping in and out of moderate depression in the sense of not wanting to be social.  As I'm sure you can all relate, this tends to take a toll not only on my social life but dating/intimate life as well.  I'm about to start seeing a psychiatrist in a few weeks to help me deal with the anxiety so it doesn't get in the way of everyday life.

I would really like to find someone who can relate and be a means of support when I'm having a tough day or feel like there is no one else who really understands what I'm going through aside from my doctors.  It would be great to find someone around my age to help relate even further.

If you are interested in being my support buddy, please email me, newman.sophie@gmail.com.

Sophie

FPO snewman
Joined Jan 8, 2009

Fri, September 11, 2009 12:00 AM

 Reply posted for snewman.

I, too got colitis. It's been 3 yrs now. I would love to be your support buddy. I'm out in CA. My name is Sherman and my e-mail adress is slau826@yahoo.com 

FPO slau
Joined May 16, 2009

Tue, September 08, 2009 12:00 AM

 Reply posted for snewman.

Hey, I would love a support buddy, I work in NY.

Please E-mail me at AJC425 @ AOL.com.

My name is Anthony, wter you E-mail me.e can talk af

FPO bklyn04
Joined Apr 8, 2008

Wed, August 26, 2009 12:00 AM

 Reply posted for snewman.

Hi Sophie, 


My name's Jen and I'm 23.  I too have UC.  Unfortunately, I don't live in your area.  I'm out in CA, but I wouldn't mind being an email or phone buddy.  Also, if you can find a local support group in your area, that's a great way to meet people nearby who have your same condition that you can build friendships with.  I found a local support group out here and although I've only been to one meeting so far (next one is tomorrow), I feel as though I'm a part of a family now.  We all understand the diseases and the difficulties, emotions, and the emberrassing topics that others don't necessarily want to hear or talk about.  I also met a girl my age, who has UC there, and we exchanged emails and have been keeping in touch.  She's great and has lots of tips for me, and is so wonderful to answer all my questions.  I would definitely recommend looking into it.  Again, if you would like to chat, I would love to talk to you.  My email address is jennifer_borges85@yahoo.com .  Good luck!

FPO jen8585
Joined Mar 13, 2009

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