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My life after surgery


Wed, June 24, 2009 12:00 AM

I've had UC for almost 30 years. I've been without symptoms for about 15 years. Then they found pre-cancerous tissue (dysplasia) in my colon, and the whole thing had to come out. It was terrifying. I felt completely fine, except for these small bumps that I couldn't feel or see. After the 1st surgery, I had that miserable bag and the whole 9 yards for 8 weeks.


I had the second surgery - the one that re-connected me - on May 12 '09. I have to say I am doing better than I could have expected. All of those concerns that I read about, including emergencies, accidents, and urgency, passed me by completely. I lost 25 pounds after the 1st surgery, and I'm
putting it all back on slowly (although I wish some of it would stay off!)

I was so scared before the first surgery, I carried a bottle of anti-anxiety medications around with me. Now, except for some pain around the incisions and the fact that my poop looks weird, I'd never even know I had surgery.

For anybody who needs someone to listen, I'm in a great place now, and I'm happy to have my ear bent. It is a scary experience that no one should have to go through, but if you do, please know that there are other people who have walked this path already.

Best wishes,
Craig

FPO cbyrnes
Joined Jun 24, 2009

Sun, May 09, 2010 12:00 AM

 Reply posted for Jack.

Jack:

I'm sorry we lost touch. Please let me know how you're doing.

Best wishes,
Craig

FPO cbyrnes
Joined Jun 24, 2009

Fri, August 28, 2009 12:00 AM

 Reply posted for Jack.

Jack:


I'm happy to talk to you about the surgery. Give me your e-mail and I'll send you my phone number, if you want to talk in person, or we can communicate by these postings if you prefer.

I'm 42, so I was still considered young for a major surgery, but I can definitely relate to your concerns. My understanding is that the quality of the results are directly related to the quality of the surgeon, so do what you can to choose from the best available options.

Best wishes,
craig

FPO cbyrnes
Joined Jun 24, 2009

Fri, August 28, 2009 12:00 AM

 Reply posted for cbyrnes.

My situation sounds a lot like yours.  UC for 35 years controlled by medication.  I'm feeling great and haven't had a problem in five years.  Dysplasia was diagnosed on colonoscopy and now I'm facing surgery and the decision to have an ileostomy or j-pouch.  I'm scared about all the complications I've heard about. 

I'm 60 years old and am interested in finding someone around my age who had a j-pouch and how they did.

Jack

 

FPO jack
Joined Aug 28, 2009

Tue, August 11, 2009 12:00 AM

 Reply posted for ACA11.

Thanks for the information Craig.

I have Uc, and had to have emergency surgery due to peritonitis, diverticulitis and hole blown into my intestines.

I almost died.  I had been having a severe episode with infections and pain..then on June 24, I was knocked down with excruciating pain so badly I couldn't walk at all.  My sister had to call the paramedics, they pealed me off my niece's bed in front of my son, her hubby and my 2 niece's.

I get to the hospital and I had a hole in my colon which is the meaning to the above diagnosis (I am sure you know what I am referring to).

I am due for my reversal here soon.  What do they do with the site of the Stoma when they remove it?

I am not afraid of getting surgery, I have had 2 c-sections, apandectomy, I am sure you are aware of the size of incision for the colstomy (OUCH), but I was walking after 2 days....

I am 32 and battling for 5 years with all these "SUPPOSED" illness's.

Bottom line:  I can't wait to have this done!  It seems I haven't wanted something so much in my life since my kids came of course...

I do FEEL 100% percent better as I am sure you do.  I have no gas, no diarea, no bloating, no constipation.  I feel like a new person. 

Cakies

FPO cakies
Joined Aug 7, 2009

Mon, July 20, 2009 11:28 PM

 Reply posted for zswashington.

I'm so sorry you're going through this. Believe me, I understand being scared. The odds are good that you'll feel better after it's done and you recuperate, but it's hard to see that from where you are. Try to understand that, even though you're scared now, it *will* get much better, and soon.


I didn't have a 6-month old, but I had a 6 year old and a 3 year old who were both scared for me. They showed it by acting out. My older one started getting in trouble in school, which *never* happened before. Once Daddy came home, it was like a huge cloud lifted from over him.

What I can tell you is that they've been doing these surgeries for so long that they're *really* good at them now. When I was first diagnosed, these surgeries were just experimental. Now, my doctor alone has done 1000s of them himself.

I understand being scared. It's gonna suck for a little bit, but probably just a little bit. I had some pain, but not nearly as much as I thought I would. Two months out, I'm pretty much back to my normal routine. My doctor even signed off on my getting a temporary handicapped placard for my car, so I get great parking until October!

I hope it's the same (or even better) for you. Will you keep me posted on how you're doing?

Best wishes, and I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers,
Craig

FPO cbyrnes
Joined Jun 24, 2009

Mon, July 20, 2009 10:32 PM

 Reply posted for cbyrnes.

I am a Crohn's patient and I am on my way to having my first surgery and I am so scared...  While having this illness I have had 2 C-sections 13mos. apart and I am still suffering.  I still have tenderness around that area and my baby is now 6mos. old. 

FPO zswashington
Joined Jul 20, 2009

Fri, July 03, 2009 4:29 PM

 Reply posted for smiller.

I'm a lawyer, which involves a lot of tush-sitting as well. I started working a short schedule from home almost immediately. I'm back in full force now, just 1 1/2 months later.


My hospital stay was 8 days, so I was bored out of my mind and ready to get working again. I thought a hospital stay sounded like a nice vacation, but it doesn't work that way at all.

Good luck with your surgery! They've gotten so good at it now, I hope it goes well for you!

Craig

FPO cbyrnes
Joined Jun 24, 2009

Fri, July 03, 2009 1:35 PM

 Reply posted for cbyrnes.

I have UC and I am getting pretty close to surgery (jpouch). I was wondering how long were you out of work?  I am in the accounting field and pretty much just sit all day. 

 

Thanks 

FPO smiller
Joined Aug 18, 2008

Mon, June 29, 2009 10:41 AM

 Reply posted for ACA11.

I'm sorry, this isn't entirely related, but my joints are hurting.  I supposedly have UC - had the colectomy/J-pouch surgery in 2005 - and joint pain that started in 2007.  Now they are saying, maybe I have Crohn's instead.  Please let me know what has helped you.  I'm so tired of this.

Thanks.

FPO jpouch person
Joined Jun 18, 2008

Wed, June 24, 2009 12:00 AM

 Reply posted for ACA11.

I'm going in to see my doctor tomorrow, because I'm feeling swollen and tender around the main incision (there are about 4 incisions, one of which I don't even know why it's there!) I can't say I'm having trouble with it; we'll see what the doctor says tomorrow. My worst concern is that I popped something open, and I'll need another, hopefully minor, surgery.


It sounds like your Crohn's is largely under control. That's certainly something to be grateful for! Are you on Remicade or Humira or something similar?

FPO cbyrnes
Joined Jun 24, 2009

Wed, June 24, 2009 12:00 AM

 Reply posted for cbyrnes.

Craig,

You stated that you still have some pain around the incision area.  When I had to have my gall bladder out in 10/08, it took almost eight weeks to fully recuperate from the incision point (major one below bellybutton) and to this day, it is still the same purpleish pink color.  Now after having knee surgery (I am a crohns patient and my immune system is attacking all other parts of my body, although I am in remission - I could never get sick like normal people LOL) the incision points on each side of my knee are still swollen and bruised after two weeks and one of them, if I bend my knee the wrong way, shoots fire through it.  Have you had much/many complications from the incision points? 

FPO aca11
Joined Mar 3, 2009

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