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16 year-old son just diagnosed


Tue, September 02, 2014 11:29 AM

What do I say to him when I see him tonight?

FPO tomk
Joined Sep 2, 2014

Sat, December 13, 2014 11:52 PM

 Reply posted for tomk.

How did it go? I am in the same boat right now... terrified my kid will go to google like I did and find all the horror stories. 

FPO celdia
Joined Dec 13, 2014

Tue, September 02, 2014 3:55 PM

 Reply posted for tomk.

Assure him that  it is ok, and that as a family will get through this tough time.  The hardest part is the beginning dx and the first steps in determining the treatment, adjusting to the meds, follow-up appointments, etc.  It seems very overwhelming now for you and the family, but take one step at a time which will bring you one step closer to a new "normal".  

Don't overwhelm him with too much info of even self doubt and questions you may have - save those for a discussion with his dr.  

FPO lizzies mom
Joined Sep 9, 2009