Community Forum

Have a question, or want to share your own tips and experiences? Join the discussion in the community forum. You must be registered to participate. Our forums are moderated by Crohn's & Colitis Foundation staff to facilitate a safe environment.

DATING when do you tell ?


Thu, June 23, 2011 1:14 PM

I have an illeostomy and have had girls that have found about my condition from others and they lost their interest at that time.   I have met a girl/lady on line for 11/2 year now and not told her she is intelligent girl the kind you want to bring home seems to be wise beyond her years. I will go to visit her in next month ,another girl online told me not tell until I meet her and now this other girl (the one that knows about illeo ) wants to chat but this other girl seems more my style. Any advice when to reveal my illeostomy story -I am very healthy and happy now -no problems whatever except Im lonely.

FPO silentchase
Joined Jun 23, 2011

Thu, June 23, 2011 7:45 PM

 Reply posted for silentchase.

I guess I'm from an older generation when people actually dated  (in person), so perhaps I am "old school", but you have nothing to lose by getting her know her on a face-to-face level before spilling every bean in your pot.  I think when the time is right you will know.  In the meantime, get to know each other, share interests, have fun! 

Lizzies Mom

FPO lizzies mom
Joined Sep 9, 2009

Related Topics

Abortion pills in Dubai +...
Author Image pamelen
Joined Mar 13, 2025

Abortion pills in Dubai +971551311906 Misoprostol ....

read more

Abortion pills in Dubai +...
Author Image pamelen
Joined Mar 13, 2025

Abortion pills in Dubai +971551311906 Misoprostol ....

read more

Abortion pills in Dubai +...
Author Image pamelen
Joined Mar 13, 2025

Abortion pills in Dubai +971551311906 Misoprostol ....

read more