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Feeling horrible about my husband...


Wed, January 22, 2014 7:53 PM

Well I'm going to sound like an awful person, but I am just truly tired of being married to someone with Crohn's!! Selfish, I know. My husband and I have been married for about 5 years (together 7 years) and I just feel so alone sometimes. I know I'm not the one physically dealing with this awful disease but it really affects our marriage in so many ways...as you all know.... Does anyone else just feel like giving up at times? I love my husband with all my heart and I do all I can for him but sometimes I feel at my wits end. Does anyone else feel this way?

FPO klein383
Joined Mar 30, 2017

Mon, January 27, 2014 11:46 AM

 Reply posted for scimom2.

scimom2~
 

Thanks so much for your reply. I think I'm feeling this way because we have started trying to conceive our first child. That alone is extremely scary, but I feel like it's even scarier for a couple that deals with Crohn's on a daily basis.  How challenging has it been with a baby?

FPO klein383
Joined Mar 30, 2017

Sun, January 26, 2014 1:26 PM

 Reply posted for klein383.

I understand how you feel.  We have been married 7, together 11, UC diagnosis 11 years ago.  We just had our first child, and the UC symptoms annoy me all over again.  I really notice now when he's not available to help with the baby because he's in the restroom.  But stay strong, everyone has issues in their marriage, ours just has a name.  Sometimes I find it helpful to imagine all the things I would find more aggravating in a husband then UC.  

FPO scimom2
Joined Jan 26, 2014

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