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Dr note for home instruction


Tue, December 08, 2015 3:59 PM

My 15 yr old son just has step 1 of 3 j-pouch surgery.  He has missed all but 3 weeks of school so far this year and still has much recovery and 2 additional surgeries.  He has had some home instruction and managed straight A's for the first marking period.  He fears going back to school with the bag (embarrassment in school with the bag making noises, possible leaking, changing in gym,  getting bullied if someone finds out, etc, etc).  Anyway, our school will continue to provide home instruction with a doctor's note.  Our Dr wants me to draft something for him to sign, but I have no idea what to write.  Has anyone else been through this and what sort of note was provided to the school?

FPO kdante
Joined Dec 8, 2015

Wed, December 09, 2015 12:43 AM

 Reply posted for kdante.

So sorry for what you are going through. My 14 year old son has missed most of this semester, too, because of severe IBD and being in the hospital for 7 months. Finally home but not doing well enough to be in school. I helped draft a letter for his GI that briefly outlined first the IBD diagnosis and its impact on my son that affects school, then why he hasn't been able to be in school (i.e. summary of illness that kept him hospitalized listing main issues and symptoms), why he wouldn't be able to in school for at least xyz period of time (i.e. rest of the semester). We listed home instruction and any accommodations that are requested (i.e. extra time for testing). My son is taking online courses and has a home tutor 5 hours a week.

Also, our son's wonderful pediatric GI is part of a GI department that has a very helpful GI social worker who has helped with letters and resources if you have access to a social worker. I hope everything goes smoothly for the rest of your son's surgeries and recovery.

FPO lisa devotedmom
Joined Feb 22, 2015

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